Step 1
Set Dedicated Time
Start by setting aside dedicated time each day or week to read through the chapters of your book. This will allow you to absorb the material without feeling rushed or disturbed.
Step 2
Table of Content or INDEX
Start by reading through the Table of Contents to get a sense of the book's structure and main themes or if you already have an idea as to what specifically your seeking insight about you can go to the INDEX and find the corresponding pages. This will help you identify specific areas that resonate with your current relationship challenges or goals.
Step 3
Make Your Notes
As you progress, write notes or highlight key points that resonate with you. Consider how these points apply to your own life and relationships.
Step 4
Engage Actively
Engage actively with any exercises or reflection prompts included in the book. These are designed to deepen your understanding and help you in your personal growth.
Step 5
Not Sure?
If you're unsure about any details or words in the book, it is okay to do your added research. Do remember this book is an extra tool for you to better or enhance the relationships you desire.
Step 6
Self Reflect
As you are progressing in your journey, take some time out to think back on past situations and how you dealt with them in the past compared to how you are doing better now. Speak positively to yourself on days when your doing good to celebrate and on days when your not doing so good to check yourself and remind yourself of the purpose of your journey.
Step 7
Patience & Consistency
Remember that change takes time, so be patient with yourself as you consistently implement new strategies from your book. Revisit sections as needed, especially when facing new challenges or milestones in your journey or just getting a refresher.
Step 8
Last But Not Least
Enjoy the fruits of your labor and effort. As you see progress in your way of thinking and actions and the improvements in your relationship, enjoy it and experience it thankfully and wholeheartedly, after all that's why you purchased the book and did the work, you wanted it so enjoy it.